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Are We Handing Down Treasured Family Heirlooms or Guilt

I read a humorous article by the Wall Street Journal entitled Lock the Door! Your Boomer bague argent asos Parents Have Decided bague femme avec louis d’or to Downsize.

The post shared bague femme ancienne stories of bague femme mickey how baby boomer parents were downsizing and in turn trying to hand down their heirlooms to their children who quite frankly didn want them.

Porcelain birds, cement bunnies, gaudy lamps all being passed to their adult children along with stories bague femme argent pierre of the family history and importance of the items.

I loved this quote from one baby boomer parent who was unfortunately having difficulties getting their daughter to appreciate their family treasures,”This next generation just looks at it like, ‘what a pile of crap,’”.

The sad thing is I can relate but from a receiving end.

A number of years back, bague femme argent fiancaille I received anti glisse bague femme a few large boxes of family heirlooms given to me by my mother who was bague femme pierre verte given to bague femme platine her by my grandmother.

Contained in these h&m bague femme boxes was a treasure trove of family stories along with the items to match.

I accepted all these items some of them I loved, others alliance bague femme swarovski not so much and of course they are now residing in china cabinets, bague bague argent quartz fume femme ouverte closets and boxes throughout my house.

Given the family history of these itemsI inherited, I also feel a sense of responsibility to take care of them.

I believe I need to pass them on to the next generation with basically the same stories and responsibility that they came to me with.

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So why don I just get rid of the pieces I don like

To get rid of any of these family heirlooms feels like I disrespecting some of my family bague femme argent coeur history. custom iphone 11 case I feel as though I been entrusted to make sure that they make it to the next generation. coque iphone xs That I am responsible to share the same stories and expectations that accompany beingthe keeper of these items.

But after I read this article, I bague argent style joaillerie pretty sure my kids feel the same way I do about a few of the piecesin our family possession.

So I had to ask myself,am I just passing on the guilt of being the custodian of the family heirlooms versus the joy of knowing that you are holding onto something special from your family past

I think at some point in this cycle, we need to stop and ask ourselves what really constitutes a family heirloom.

By definition, a heirloom is valuable object that bague femme améthyste has belonged to a family for several generations think the key word here is valuable.

So for right now I will continue to hold onto all taille 6 bague femme the family bague femme croix treasures in my possession. iphone 11 case amazon/a> When the time comes, bague femme avec pierre I will offer them to my children.

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